You may not want to have everything, but you deserve to have everything you want.
Wanting and deserving trigger different sets of emotions. Sometimes you may not be aware of how different the emotions related to choosing and deserving are because it is unconscious, you just feel them.
For you to know the difference between them and what happens when you are aware of these emotions, let’s do a practical exercise whereby you are consciously aware of how you feel when you believe you deserve it and when you know you don’t.
Imagine that you are in front of your computer searching for something to buy or searching for a job.
Pay attention to how you feel when you are choosing what you want and what you don’t want.
Pay attention to the kind of emotions that are present when you are in control of the choice even if you can’t find anything you want at any given moment.
Also pay attention if your mind stops searching or motivates you to keep going perhaps another time.
When you are in choosing mode, it is safe to say that your emotions are at the very least in neutrality. Even if you don’t find what you are looking for at any given moment you don’t feel any negative emotions because you know you will eventually get what you want.
You are in control.
You are in flow because your mind will keep searching for what you want.
Being in control and being in flow motivate you to keep going for as long as it takes until you get what you want.
Now, let’s repeat this exercise again only now when you are in front of your computer looking for something, you say to yourself:
“I don’t deserve this. I don’t deserve the car, I don’t deserve the job, I don’t deserve to make that kind of money. “
Notice what happens inside of you.
Notice what kind of emotions “not deserving” triggers in you.
Also, notice what happens to your mind: Will your mind carry on searching or will it stop? That’s right, your mind will stop searching.
When you feel you “don’t deserve anything” you trigger emotions such as frustration, insecurity, lack of confidence and fear of keeping searching.
You get stuck.
You lose control and you get out of flow.
Let’s take action right now.
Let’s go back to the beginning when you say to yourself as often as you need that
“I may not want to have everything, but I most certainly deserve to have everything I want.”
If it helps repeat the exercise and feel the different set of emotions when you are in control and in flow and when you are stuck and in fear.
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